Daayiee Abdullah

Daayiee Abdullah (born Sidney Thompson in 1954 in Detroit, Michigan, United States)^[1][2] is an African American, gay Imam in Washington, D.C.^[1][3][4] Abdullah is said to be one of three openly gay Imams in the world (the others being Muhsin Hendricks of South Africa and Ludovic Mohamed-Zahed of France)^[5][6][7][8]

Abdullah operated the Al-Fatiha Foundation until it closed in 2011.^[9] Abdullah is controversial, as he is openly gay and describes himself as a Muslim leader, since male homosexuality is forbidden in mainstream Islam.^[3]

Early life and education

Abdullah was born in 1954 as Sidney Thompson in Detroit, Michigan.^[2][10][11] His parents supported him, his six older brothers, his younger sister, and his oldest step-sister from his father’s first marriage to find religion despite his parent’s Southern Baptist beliefs.^[4][11] When he was 8 years old, he visited a Synagogue, a Hindu temple, and an assortment of Christian denominations.^[11] None of these religions he had explored fit him exactly, so he continued to search for a religion he could put his faith into. He converted to Islam at age 30.^[11] When Abdullah was 15, he graduated from high school early because he had gone to summer school most summers.^[11] Along with summer school, he and his family traveled around North America so that he could see what the world was truly like.^[11] His parents believed that once a member of the family had graduated high school, he was an adult.^[11] Knowing this, Abdullah came out to his parents, and was accepted after assuring his parents that they had "done nothing wrong."^[11] Abdullah has said that he knew he was attracted to men at the age of five.^[11] His parents, now both deceased, were a source of inspiration and confidence for him growing up.^[11]

Abdullah graduated from the David A. Clarke School of Law in Washington, D.C. in 1995 as a juris doctor.^[2] He attended the Graduate School of Islamic Social Sciences in Ashburn, Virginia from 2000 to 2003, but was kicked out when the school discovered he was gay.^[12]

Career

In 1978, Abdullah went to Washington D.C. for a conference because he was working for Governor Jerry Brown’s office in San Francisco.^[11] Then, in 1979 he returned to D.C. for the National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights as one of the coordinators.^[11] Because he was a coordinator, he went a week early and then stayed a week later for his vacation only to return a month later.^[11] After two weeks in San Francisco, he decided that he wanted to live in D.C.^[11] In the 80’s Abdullah began his tenure at Beijing University.^[11] He studied the Chinese language and literature, and later Arabic, Arabic Linguistics, North African, and Middle Eastern Studies, and several years working and studying in Muslim countries.^[9][11] Some of his classmates were from Ürümqi, and were Chinese Muslims.^[11] They asked him what he knew of Islam, which lead to being invited to his very first Beijing Mosque.^[9][11] At this first mosque, Abdullah understood everything that was being said and knew this was the faith he had been searching for.^[11] At age 30, he became a Muslim and chose to sometimes go by the name Daayiee Abdullah. He didn't add on the title Imam until later.^[11]

Around 2000, he joined the online Yahoo! group Muslim Gay Men.^[11] On this forum, there were many who claimed to be gay, but were intent on telling those who were seeking help that the Qur’an forbids homosexuality.^[11] Abdullah attempted to refute these comments by explaining that one is to follow the Qur’an first and the Haddith second.^[11] Through this, he began to gain popularity among homosexuals and allies across the online community.^[11] One of the reasons he had begun to be called Imam was because he has performed many ceremonies for people in who were considered pariahs in their community due to illnesses or the gender or religion of the person they wished to marry.^[11] A few gay Muslims died of AIDS, and no one would do their Janazah.^[11] Abdullah also performed same-sex marriages for men and women and counseling for all couples—heterosexual and homosexual.^[11] Along with performing these ceremonies that others would not, he married mixed couples and religiously differing couples who are from the Abrahamic faith.^[9][11] Because the Abrahamic faiths are sister religions, and because the Qu'ran says that Abrahamic believers can interact with other Abrahamic believers, Abdullah believes that it is plausible to marry between Abrahamic religions.^[11]

He was the business manager at Georgetown Fitness Center from 2007 to 2009. Abdullah, under his legal name Sidney Thompson, is the CEO of Asiad & Associates, a software company in Washington, D.C.

Masjid An-Nur Al-Isslaah

Abdullah attempted to create an LGBT-friendly masjid in Washington D.C., but it failed because there was much fear over what the community would do to those caught attending.^[13] Later, in 2011, he helped create a mosque for anyone who wanted to attend located in a public library in D.C.^[14] The plan is to raise funds to create a purpose-built mosque of their own where all are free to worship.^[14] Since 2000, Abdullah has provided specialized counseling services for Muslims from a wide spectrum of Muslim religious and cultural backgrounds.^[9]

Abdullah is the imam and religious director of Masjid An-Nur Al-Isslaah (English: "Mosque for Enlightenment and Reformation" or "Light of Reform Mosque"), an LGBT-welcoming mosque.^[15] He is on the Advisory Board of Muslims for Progressive Values.^[9] He also holds a position in Oslo, Norway at Skeiv Verden ("Gay World").^[9][13]

Al-Fatiha Foundation

Abdullah was a board member of the round table of the Al-Fatiha Foundation for several years.^[9] From 2011 to 2012, he served as part of the Queer Muslim Working Group, which evolved into the Muslim Alliance for Sexual and Gender Diversity in 2013.^[16] Abdullah also has served on the planning team for the LGBT Muslim Retreat^[17] since 2011.

Views

Abdullah believes that the Qur’an permits same-sex marriage and "a healthy sexual relationship."^[11]

Personal life

In 2006, Abdullah was in a long-term relationship of ten years. His partner was Christian, which is one of the reasons he performs these religious ceremonies between Abrahamic religions.^[11]

As of 2015, Abdullah was single, claiming that the pressure on his closeted partner was too much for the relationship.^[18]

See also

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• African American Muslim converts
• LGBT in Islam
• Al-Fatiha Foundation Fatwa
• Lut, source of Qur'anic injunctions against homosexuality

References

• A Man for All Seasons Imam Daayiee Abdullah offers a gay Muslim's insights for the holidays by Will O'Bryan, Metro Weekly magazine, December 21, 2006
• Macfarquhar, Neil (7 November 2007). "Gay Muslims Find Freedom, of a Sort, in the U.S.". The New York Times. p. 20. 
• Imam Daayiee Abdullah welcomes gay Muslims to worship, marry by Emily Wax, The Washington Post, April 17, 2013
• Could This Be America’s First Out Imam? by Matthew Breen, Out Magazine, December 23, 2013

External links

• Light of Reform Mosque, Washington, D.C.